Friday, July 14, 2017

Bab 7/2017 : WHY BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE ?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh ... 

Bab 7/2017 : Salam 20 Syawal 1438H.

Sihat semuanya?  Moga mempunyai hari-hari yang indah bersama semua yang tersayang ya. Insya Allah ...


Pernah tak korang ditanya ...  why bad things happened to so-call good people -  at least we're the one assume that people are good lah kan. Kadang kita mungkin terdetik rasa cam aneh Kenapa orang islam teruk diuji?  Perang sana sini. Adakah Allah tak sayang dan tak nak tolong orang-orang Islam yang sedang berperang tu semua?
Seriously aku pernah diasak oleh seseorang yang so-call tak puas hati dengan Tuhan - kenapa dia diuji dengan begitu teruk.  Pastu siap mengungkit-ungkit kenapa Palestin diuji. Syrian diuji. Kids and women badly tortured etc.  Dia punya asakan soalan tu memang buat aku terdiam dan jadi gerun pun ada.  Puas juga aku terang, jelaskan dan dia menemplak aku semula "You senang lah cakap sebab you tak rasa apa yang I rasa"  
Haa ambek aku ... walau dalam hati nak juga kujawab "macam lah ko rasa apa yang aku rasa" ... hahaha... jika kujawab begitu, kelak tidak berkesudahan pula persengketaan.  Harus juga ada yang mencerca dengan kata "Wanita lindungan Tuhan juga berbahasa 'kesat' begitu" ?  adeiii   pening juga.  Hahaha ...

But seriously guys ... WHY BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE ?

This the question and issue that a lot of people are struggle with.  Usually the inability to answer this question can cause a lot of headache and worse ...
To some people it may lead to disbelief ... nauzubillah.

A lot of people cannot really find the answer - cause them to ignore the ALMIGHTY GOD.

But some people will give "standard answer"  that we've been advice before something like :  "Ujian tu kan tanda Allah sayang.  Ujian tu kan sebab Allah nak naikan darjat ko"

#ehmacamAyatakujetew.


Kau bagi jawapan ni kat kawan aku macam yang aku tulis dipermulaan entri ini tadi - nescaya teruklah kau kena semburan dengan dia.  Hahaha.

Recently Allah allows me to listen to one inspirational talk by Yasmin Mogahed about this topic. (it's in youtube - you guys can google it or click HERE ).  And the point that she share in her talks make me stood back and realise; "Hmmm betul juga" ....

She said - BAD THINGS NEVER HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. 

#senyumjap sambil #WOW #Seriously?

Tersandar kejap aku mendengarnya.  Bad things never happen to good people... seriously? 

Habis tu yang banyak kita tengok orang baik kena tindas kena buli dan sebagainya tu KENAPA?  Kita salah sangka yang dia tu baik tapi-sebenarnya-dia-tu-tak-baik-ke?  Ke macam mana sebenarnya ni?

Then she said "seriously BAD THINGS NEVER HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE.  And you know why?"

Sebab katanya it's mentioned in hadis sahih ...

“Amazing is the affair of the believer, verily all of his affair is good and this is not for no one except the believer. If something of good/happiness befalls him he is grateful and that is good for him. If something of harm befalls him he is patient and that is good for him” 
(Saheeh Muslim #2999)".

ALL the affair of the believer  is good.
Kalau dapat berita baik - dia bersyukur.
Kalau diuji - dia sabar.
Masya Allah.  Hadis yang biasa dengar tapi tidak berbekas di hati.  But this time - menusuk betul dalam hati aku.
With this belief now - aku akan move on ... come what may I'll stay and stand strong Insya Allah.

Hey dude ... BAD THINGS NEVER HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE.

One of them is the state of (receiving a) blessing. It’s obligatory upon him (the believer) in this state (to display) the gratitude.
The second: is the state (of being) tested. It is obligatory upon him (the believer) in this state (to observe) the patience.

The third: is the state (of committing) a sin. It is obligatory upon him (the believer) in this state to seek the forgiveness from it (the sin).

Sumber : SINI
So kita lettew salah satu dari 3 golongan tu kan  ... 

okay tu je akak nak share hari ini.  Kalau uols nak dengar directly to her talk please click here Why Bad Things Happen To Good People by Yasmin Mogahed.

Surah Al-Baqara, Verse 214:
Or do you think that you would enter the garden while yet the state of those who have passed away before you has not come upon you; distress and affliction befell them and they were shaken violently, so that the Apostle and those who believed with him said: When will the help of Allah come? Now surely the help of Allah is very near!
(terjemahan BM).
Adakah patut kamu menyangka bahawa kamu akan masuk syurga, padahal belum sampai kepada kamu (ujian dan cubaan) seperti yang telah berlaku kepada orang-orang yang terdahulu daripada kamu? Mereka telah ditimpa kepapaan (kemusnahan hartabenda) dan serangan penyakit, serta digoncangkan (oleh ancaman bahaya musuh), sehingga berkatalah Rasul dan orang-orang yang beriman yang ada bersamanya: Bilakah (datangnya) pertolongan Allah?" Ketahuilah sesungguhnya pertolongan Allah itu dekat (asalkan kamu bersabar dan berpegang teguh kepada ugama Allah).

Semoga bermanfaat.
Insya Allah.
@loves_nhhas

Monday, June 12, 2017

Please keep nhhas in your doa ... Salam Ramadhan Kareem ...

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Ya Allah ...
Ya Rahman, Ya Raheem,,Ya Rabb al Alameen

Grant me death with the shahadah on my tongue.

Grant me Husn al Khatima.

Expand my grave for me and illuminate it with light.

Preserve my record in Illiyeen.

Lighten for me the questioning of the grave.

Grant me death in a state of Ibadah, resurrect me in the same state.

Keep me free from fear, anxiety and terror of the Day of Judgment.

Grant my book in my right hand.

Make me among those who show their books to others with happiness.

Make me successful in the Meezan.

Help me cross the Siraat like lightening.

Ya ALLAH, pls do not give away my good deeds to others.

Reunite me with my family in Jannah.

Do not expose my faults in front of others on the Day Of Judgement.

Ya Afu, Forgive the sins that I don't remember n the sins that I didn't even consider as sins.

Grant me Qalbun Saleem.

Cleanse my heart from malice, jealousy, hatred, self-admiration,show off, envy.

Grant me the ability to forgive others.

Grant me soft speech, protect my tongue from lying,backbiting,hurting others.

Grant me beautiful patience.

Grant me correct Aqeedah, excellent memory and understanding of the deen.

Bless my parents,forgive them,Grant them good health and make me a sadaqa jariyah for them.

Bless my siblings n their marriages. Bind us together with love. Do not let shaytan break our bond.

Grant all the single Muslims the coolness of their eyes.

Grant us righteous children and make them a sadaqa jariyah for us.

Help me understand, write and speak Arabic.

Help me maintain good ties with my relatives.

Help me see my faults and cover it from others.

Bestow me with wealth to spend in your way    

Do not let others humiliate/oppress/mock/take advantage of me.

Help me be courageous and take correct decisions.

Grant me modesty in clothing and speech in front of non Mahrams.

Oh ALLAH, help me leave behind a legacy with humility.

Forgive the Muslim ummah -the living and the dead. Bless the Muslims. Grant victory to the oppressed. Fill their hearts with Eman.

Oh ALLAH,accept my deeds.

Ya ALLAH, O my ALLAH, Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim, Ya kareem, Ya Sattar, Ya Gaffar, Ya Kadir, Ya Sami, Ya Aleem, Ya Zaljalaali Wal ikraam be rahmatika astagheeth.

Ya ALLAH I turn to you in repentance, in submission. I beg you plz fulfill my duas.

Ya ALLAH Forgive my sins, a complete forgiveness that leaves no trace.

Ya ALLAH Forgive my transgressions of Your Commands & the violations of the rights of people.

Ya ALLAH Grant me victory over my shortcomings.

Reform and upgrade me Ya Allah.

Ya ALLAH Accept my duaas, ibaadah & deeds.

Ya ALLAH Guide me towards performing good accepted deeds for Your Sake only.

Ya ALLAH Help me to attain khushu' & ikhlaas in my ibaadah.

Ya ALLAH Help me get closer to you as my end draws near.

Ya ALLAH Make me love You, Your Prophet (pbuh), Your Deen, Your Quran the way it deserves to be loved.

Ya ALLAH Increase my eeman, tawakkul, yaqeen in You.

Ya ALLAH Increase me in Taqwa, Make me of your grateful slaves.

Ya ALLAH Give me the strength to be steadfast throughout the trials I encounter.

Ya ALLAH Grant me a soft heart & content with Your Laws.

Ya ALLAH Make the Quran be my companion in both worlds.

Ya ALLAH Guide me to the siraat mustaqeem until my last breath, never be deviated in shirk, kufr or bid'ah.

Ya ALLAH Make me among the muhsineen, muttaqeen the mukhliseen, the sabiqoon fil ilm.

Ya ALLAH Increase me in beneficial knowledge.

Ya ALLAH Protect me from sicknesses of the heart (envy, arrogance, proudness, show off)

Ya ALLAH Bless me with happiness in this dunya & akhirah, protect me from sadness & depression.

Ya ALLAH Favour me with the ability to do tazkiyah of my soul throughout my life journey.

Ya ALLAH Remove the love of this world in its degrees & forms from my heart.

Ya ALLAH Invite me to Your House to worship You.

Ya ALLAH Grant me a good end, make me love to meet You.

Ya ALLAH Make my grave & barzakh a peaceful, cool abode.

Ya ALLAH Grant me the Shade of your Arsh on Yawmul Qiyaamah.

Ya ALLAH Give me my record of deeds in my right hand and make my mizaan (scale) heavy with the good deeds.

Ya ALLAH Grant me the favour to drink from the Hawd Al Kawthar by our beloved Prophet's (pbuh) hand.

Ya ALLAH Ease my crossing of the Siraat & Qantarah (bridges before Paradise).

Ya ALLAH Favour me the ultimate bliss of seeing You in Hereafter.

Ya ALLAH Shield, increase & protect the love/mercy/barakah between me & my spouse for as long as we live.

Ya ALLAH Improve our behaviour with each other.

Ya ALLAH Reward my spouse Your best reward for her/his striving for my family.

Ya ALLAH Make the Quran & Your Commands be our judge in all matters.

Ya ALLAH Strengthen our practice of the deen together.

Ya ALLAH Make us join together in bliss in Jannah al Firdaus.

Ya ALLAH, assist us with physical & emotional strength to be good parents and example to our children.

Ya ALLAH Save our children from the impact of our mistakes in their lives.

Ya ALLAH Bless us with righteous children.

Ya ALLAH Make our children the coolness of our eyes and make them sawaab-e-jaariya for me & my spouse.

Ya ALLAH Make them of those who establish Salah and prostrate only to you.

Ya ALLAH Protect my family from evil, calamities, enviers & the shayaateen from man & jinn.

Ya ALLAH Protect our children from harm, sicknesses, disbelief, haraam and destruction.

Ya ALLAH Grant our children success in Deen, duniya & Aakhirah & grant us a lineage of righteous offspring until Yawm al Qiyaamah.

Ya ALLAH Unite our entire lineage in Jannah al Firdaus.

Ya ALLAH Make our children workers for Your Deen, hafidhul Quran, da'ees, imaams, scholars and shaheeds.

Ya ALLAH Make them become the reason for our place in Jannah & shield against the Hellfire.

Ya ALLAH save me & my entire family from the Hell Fire & make us enter Jannah al Firdaus Aa'laa without being accounted.

Ya ALLAH, you are Al Gaffaar. Forgive my parents.

Ya ALLAH Reward them in the greatest measures in this dunya & akhirah.

Ya ALLAH Elevate their ranks and grant them Jannah al Firdaus.

Ya ALLAH Make me coolness of their eyes in their old age.

Ya ALLAH Grant my siblings success in this dunya & akhirah.

Ya ALLAH Elevate the ranks of my parents, spouse's parents,my sisters & brothers, my elders & entire Ummah.

Ya ALLAH Protect them from illnesses and difficulties of old age.

Ya ALLAH Forgive the sins of those who have passed away in my family & the Ummah - young & old.

Ya ALLAH Grant them a peaceful time in the barzakh till they meet YOU.

Ya ALLAH Save us from trials of Dajjal, Yujuj & Majuj & the last Day.

Ya ALLAH Grant my family & friends who are waiting for the gift of "children".

Ya ALLAH Unite the hearts of my worldly companions who work for You & strengthen our brotherhood.

Ya ALLAH Unite the hearts of those undergoing family/marital difficulties.

Ya ALLAH Grant your perfect cure to those who are sick.

Ya ALLAH Protect my brothers & sisters across the warzones & from the persecution, rape, slaughter, humiliation.

Ya ALLAH Relieve their sufferings & elevate their ranks.

Ya ALLAH Bring the downfall of those (modern day pharaohs) oppressors & Relieve those who are deprived, burdened, oppressed, in debt.

Ya ALLAH bless the person who forwarded this duas and make this a source of sadaqa jariah for them Aameen..

Ya ALLAH, answer our Duaas You are the All Hearing, All Knowing! Aameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen!!! ALLAHumma Salli Ala Sayidina wa Nabiyina Muhammad wa Ala AaliHi wa SahbiHi ajmaeen! ◦

Monday, May 22, 2017

Chapter 5/ 2017 : Life update ...

Assalamualaikum warahmatullai wabarakatuh ...

Good Day people.

Yeah surprising right? Hahaha... I'm still alive people ... still alive - alhamdulillah.

I have many things to pen down here but due to time constraint - previously I just jot down in my IG but due to further constraint - I'm not even have time to "drop by" at my own IG.

Life is in a bit BIG challenging phase.  

Too much stress until I think that I cannot cope with it anymore.
Dealing with s-o-c-a-l-l-e-d-b-r-a-i-n-l-e-s-s people is soooo much tiring and I don't know whether this is going to be worth for me to fight for it.  
I almost give up for several time. Indeed.  
T-A-K-T-I-P-U. Ahkak dah give up. 

But in every time i felt down - Allah will enlighten up again my way till it make me think that Allah want me to proceed with this plan.  Allahurabbi.




My father once told me (or the right word is motivate me) that :
"Ayah pernah mendapat satu nikmat, yang ayah tidak perjuangkan walau hak ayah dan rakan-rakan dinafikan ketika itu - mungkin sebab memang sifat orang kita ini redha dan terima sahaja apa adanya. Tapi ada seseorang dan sesungguhnya dia seorang diri fight for the rights - keluarkan belanja yang besar to win the case and finally dia menang.  Tapi bila dia menang - bukan dia seorang yang dapat manfaat, tapi satu malaysia yang terlibat mendapat manfaat - termasuk anak-anak ayah mendapat tempias manfaatnya.  And the worse think ever, I don't know who he is and I'm not be able to thank him for what he did.  Jadi jika kamu ada jalan, ada kepintaran, ada cara untuk menang dan mendapatkan hak kamu - usahakan. Tak perlu tunggu orang hargai sebab manusia memang sifatnya tidak reti menghargai. Go for it and may Allah always be with you for your good intention, Insya Allah."

Sungguh aku ter-motivasi. 
Cerita ini (tak perlu aku perincikan) menyebabkan aku tak boleh nak give up. 


Allahuakbar.

And,  in the end I realized that this is part of life circle/ cycle. 

Sebab life is a cycle. Satu hari kita dapat manfaat atas usaha orang lain, pada satu hari yang lain - kita pula perlu berusaha untuk memberi/ berkongsi manfaat dengan orang lain.

We have happy cycle at one phase and in some other phase, Allah will surely give us some test to see who is among us is the true believer.

Allah had mentioned in Surah Al-Ankabot (Surah number 29) verses 1 - 7.

1) Aliff Lam Mim

2) Do men think that they will be left alone on saying " We believe", and not be tried?

(Adakah manusia itu mengira mereke dibiarkan saja mengatakan "Kami telah beriman", sedang mereka tidak diuji lagi?)

3)And certainly We tried those before them, so Allah will certainly know those who are true and He will certainly know the liars.

Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji orang-orang sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta.

4)Or do they who work evil think that they will escape  Us?  Evil is that they judge.

Ataukah orang yang mengerjakan kejahatan itu mengira mereka akan luput dari azab Allah? Amat buruklah apa yang mereka tetapkan itu.

5) Whoever hopes to meet Allah, the term appointed by Allah will then most surely come; and He is the Hearing and the Knowing.

Barangsiapa mengharapkan pertemuan dengan Allah, maka sesungguhnya waktu (yang dijanjikan) Allah itu pasti datang, dan DIA - lah yang Maha Mendengar lagi Maha Mengetahui.

6) And whoever strives hard, he strives only for his own soul; most surely Allah is Self-sufficient, above (need of) the worlds.

Dan barangsiapa yang berjihad, maka sesungguhnya jihadnya itu adalah untuk dirinya sendiri. Sesungguhnya Allah benar-benar Maha Kaya (tidak memerlukan sesuatu) dari alam semesta.

7) And (as for) those who believe and do good, We will most certainly do away with their evil deeds and We will most certainly reward them the best of what they did.

Dan  orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh, benar-benar akan Kami hapuskan dari mereka dosa-dosa mereka dan benar-benar  akan Kami beri mereka balasan yang lebih baik dari apa yang mereka kerjakan.

Surah At-Talaq (65) , at the end of versus 2, ... and whoever careful of his duty to Allah, Allah will make for him a way out.
... dan sesiapa yang bertaqwa kepada Allah (dengan mengerjakan suruhanNya dan meninggalkan laranganNya), nescaya Allah akan mengadakan baginya jalan keluar (dari segala perkara yang menyusahkannya),

{65: 3} And give him sustenance from whence he thinks not; and whoever trusts in Allah, He is sufficient for him; surely Allah attains His purpose; Allah indeed has appointed a measure for everything.

[65:3] Serta memberinya rezeki dari jalan yang tidak terlintas di hatinya. Dan (Ingatlah), sesiapa berserah diri bulat-bulat kepada Allah, maka Allah cukuplah baginya (untuk menolong dan menyelamatkannya). Sesungguhnya Allah tetap melakukan segala perkara yang dikehendakiNya. Allah telahpun menentukan kadar dan masa bagi berlakunya tiap-tiap sesuatu.

And Allah is fair enough that Allah does not burden any soul more than what we can bear with. As Allah mentioned in the end of  Surah Al-Baqarah {2 : 286)

{2: 286} Allah does not impose upon any soul a duty but to the extent of its ability; for it is (the benefit of) what it has earned and upon it (the evil of) what it has wrought: Our Lord! do not punish us if we forget or make a mistake; Our Lord! do not lay on us a burden as Thou didst lay on those before us, Our Lord do not impose upon us that which we have not the strength to bear; and pardon us and grant us protection and have mercy on us, Thou art our Patron, so help us against the unbelieving people.

[2:286] Allah tidak memberati seseorang melainkan apa yang terdaya olehnya. Ia mendapat pahala kebaikan yang diusahakannya, dan ia juga menanggung dosa kejahatan yang diusahakannya. (Mereka berdoa dengan berkata): "Wahai Tuhan kami! Janganlah Engkau mengirakan kami salah jika kami lupa atau kami tersalah. Wahai Tuhan kami ! Janganlah Engkau bebankan kepada kami bebanan yang berat sebagaimana yang telah Engkau bebankan kepada orang-orang yang terdahulu daripada kami. Wahai Tuhan kami! Janganlah Engkau pikulkan kepada kami apa yang kami tidak terdaya memikulnya. Dan maafkanlah kesalahan kami, serta ampunkanlah dosa kami, dan berilah rahmat kepada kami. Engkaulah Penolong kami; oleh itu, tolonglah kami untuk mencapai kemenangan terhadap kaum-kaum yang kafir".

My friend and I already tried our very best for this battle and we are running out of idea already what's next.  If its already involved tribunal, lawyer, and xxx ...  I think we will wait and see - what's next.

To all my dear readers (if I still have any) - 
can you all please keep us in your doa especially in this coming month of Ramadhan - that Allah will help us out - and all of us will get back our rights, Insya Allah.
May Allah ease everything for you and me.

Alhamdulillah Ya Allah - for allowing me and for remind me on the above surah so that I can move on steadily and strongly - Insya Allah.

Ultimately to Allah we all shall return.

#Pray4NHHAS
#Pray4LARAIPutrajaya
#Pray4NHHasJourneyToUniversity.
#Pray4nhhasgetRefundFromAriq
Insya Allah

@loves_nhhas

Salam ramadhan kareem.
May Allah bless us all, Insya Allah.